26/12/2024
Unpopular facts about relationships
Here is a list of several reasons why some relationships do not yet have 3rd parties involved... Yet. (cheating)
1. Financial constraints
This usually affects men. Men are usually faithful due to lack of resources. Once they get financially stable they begin to explore other avenues. Hence, poverty is the strength of this kind of relationship. You all think he is good, faithful and upright until he gets a little cash. As they say, money reveals hidden characters.
2. Fear of the unknown
This applies to both genders. The person does want to cheat, but fear of consequences keeps them in check. Fear of losing the partner, fear of public opinion, backlash from society or church etc. Once these people overcome this kind of fear... the circus begins.
3. Rejection
Mostly applies to men. You will all be thinking a dude doesn't play games, yet he is patrolling females inboxes, proposing without any luck. It's only a matter of time before someone gives him the opportunity.
4. Lack of exposure
Applies mostly to females. She is not mixing and mingling with many people, so her circle is very small. This kind of person gets wild if they get a bit of exposure, like a job, they end up knacking someone from work, boss or workmate.
5. Circumstances
These are the faithful ones only because life is moving well, they are given what they need when they need it, and once they hit a rough patch, they justify the act with a lack of basic needs and/or wants.
6. Lack of pressure from their admirers
These people would actually fall if the persons who are tempting them apply serious pressure. You are only safe because the ones who can get to them are not serious enough. Affects many females.
Note: These are just my thoughts, and not universal truths. Paste yours in comments.
