03/04/2023
"I know women will attack me but it’s ok am ready...guys don’t date a woman who can’t afford her own expenses and makes you feel bad for not affording her expenses, sometimes it’s understandable that she can’t afford herself coz maybe she’s looking for a job or trying to do something with her life, you can HELP IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT, some of you guys date women who work but they have expenses that are over their salaries and expect the boyfriend to be the one who pays for their lack of financial management, if she can’t manage her own salary she will never manage a family, funny thing is if the same women had brothers they wouldn’t want their own brothers to spend money on women like they want you guys to spend money on them...
I have something to say to you gents , if she works but asks you for transport money, entertainment money, money for salon then you are in a wrong relationship, as a guy you can spoil your woman take her out, buy gifts now and then it’s ok but don’t let someone pressurize you into feeling you are not man enough for not giving her money...it’s like you are paying her to be in a relationship, build your wealth build your life.
Gentlemen, some of you earn like R10000 but spend R2000 of your monthly salaries trying to please women who won’t even be in your life in a year’s time, invest that money, save it, register at tertiary to study, start a business for extra income,if you have extra money use it to make more money thats how wealth is created, it’s not an overnight thing, remember a million rands started as 1c so let’s work to empower ourselves and stop using money to try and impress women by trying to look rich...A woman who truly loves you will never make you a feel like a failure for not affording her own expenses but will rather motivate you to keep building your life."
