07/27/2023
Meet my favorite client and dear friend Debra Matzner.
Debra is blunt - knows what she wants and does not want.
Always generious - insists on paying me for her McDonald's breakfast even when I am visiting her as a buddy not her computer repair man.
She makes no apologies for being a smoker: “At this point why am I going to worry about that. I enjoy it.”
I have been been providing Apple Computer support for her and her late husband Mark since around 2001. Mark was a retired chemist from Union Carbide when I met him. Debra’s main use of computers is to assist in her creative passion for sewing, reading emails and books, playing computer games, watching movies, and listening to music.
Debra had a harrowing childhood. Memories of Europe during World War 2 are with her every time I see her.
She remembers being forced to wear a Star of David patch as she went to school at age 6.
She travelled with her family (sister, mother and father) from their home in Antwerp, Belgium to Switzerland to survive the holocaust.
"My father came home one night and said we had to leave immediately."
They were forced to walk much of that journey.
"I still have a fear of dogs from that. The Nazi's and police used dogs to hunt us.
My parents told me they let us into Switzerland because we were a family with children. My mother, sister and I were kept together. My father went to a work camp." Eventually they were reunited in Geneva.
Arrived on a freighter in Hoboken, New Jersey around 1955 married with a daughter.
We faced many challenges (including being robbed at the dock), but Mark got a job in his actual field of chemistry.
Debra and Mark are greatful for all they got in United States and became naturalized citizens.
"We love the freedom of this country," Debora tells me every time I visit her.
They raised their daughter, Stella, who attended Rutgers University and lives in New York City. Stella Matzner Ben Forest Consulting LLC