09/26/2022
One of the most important lessons I have learned in relationships is that love alone is not enough. In a healthy and long-lasting intimate relationship, 'love' is not the most important thing. We grew up being told that as long as we love each other, everything can be solved. , but I found not so, values are aligned, goals are aligned, lifestyles are aligned, wealth levels are similar,
A relationship without trust is like a car without gasoline, you can stay comfortably where you are, waiting to evacuate, but you can never move forward. Maybe you have similar interests and tacit understanding, and you can share countless joys, romances, and passions, but from Don't dare to really exchange each other's values and goals, and you will eventually realize it painfully. People must have similar values before they can come together. Don't pay for a momentary enthusiasm. Just love is not enough.
