Aimee Says

Aimee Says Aimee Says is an innovative AI tool designed to offer understanding, support, and empowerment to those facing domestic abuse.

09/04/2026

Years of communication records analyzed for 130 types of controlling behaviors.

Just $49 with a subscription to the #1 platform for relationship abuse recovery.

https://www.aimeesays.com/en/aimee-detects

08/27/2026

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Sometimes you know something important is buried in years of texts or co-parenting messages. Finding it is the hard part...
08/24/2026

Sometimes you know something important is buried in years of texts or co-parenting messages. Finding it is the hard part.

Aimee Detects can now help you look through those records. Upload supported communication files, and Aimee will identify events across 130 types of controlling behavior and child-related factors, apply tags, and organize what it finds into a timeline.

That can make it easier to notice what happened repeatedly, how communication changed over time, and where concerns involving parenting time, medical care, education, decision-making, or a child’s wellbeing appear in the record.

Aimee creates drafts for you to review. You decide what’s accurate, what needs to be changed, and what belongs in your record. Nothing replaces your judgment or the advice of a qualified professional.

The goal is practical: less time searching through messages, less time rereading painful exchanges, and a clearer record to bring to the people supporting you. Aimee Detects fits into the larger Aimee ecosystem, helping you move from recognition to documentation and, over time, recovery.

Your records are private and encrypted. Aimee never trains on your data.

Learn more: https://www.aimeesays.com/en/aimee-detects

You already did the hard part by living through it. You shouldn’t have to be the only person searching for the pattern.

Coercive control is difficult to recognize partly because humans are “cognitive misers”: we filter out complicated infor...
08/20/2026

Coercive control is difficult to recognize partly because humans are “cognitive misers”: we filter out complicated information to conserve mental energy.

That shortcut hides the larger pattern. Monitoring, intimidation, financial restriction, destabilization, and retaliation may be treated as isolated incidents rather than connected forms of control.

Technology can make complexity easier to examine (without pretending complexity is simple.)

We are about to release a new feature that will convert years of messaging history into structured data - and we hope it will help conserve mental calories for the people who make life-changing decisions for abuse surivors.

"Help is available." It’s a phrase meant to offer hope, but for many survivors, it’s a promise that leads directly to a ...
07/16/2026

"Help is available." It’s a phrase meant to offer hope, but for many survivors, it’s a promise that leads directly to a brick wall.

When a survivor reaches out and encounters waitlists, legal hurdles, and systemic gaps instead of real safety, they don’t blame the structure. They blame themselves. They wonder why they couldn't make the "help" work, not why the help wasn't actually there.

In our latest blog post, we break down why "Help is available" and 9 other common messages: like "just leave" or "why didn't you tell someone sooner": actually reinforce victim-blaming. These messages ask survivors to carry a load that should belong to the law, the community, and the systems built to protect them.

We need to stop treating community and systemic failures as individual shortcomings.

Read the full deep dive here: https://www.aimeesays.com/en/resources/help-is-available

“What if I’m wrong about everything?”It’s the haunting question that keeps survivors of gaslighting awake at night. On t...
07/14/2026

“What if I’m wrong about everything?”

It’s the haunting question that keeps survivors of gaslighting awake at night.

On the latest episode of the “Why She Stayed” podcast, our CEO Anne Wintemute joins host Grace Stuart to explore a modern lifeline for clarity. They dive into how AI serves as a private, judgment-free mirror: a way to untangle the chaos of toxic dynamics without the immediate fear of being judged or misunderstood.

In this episode, we discuss:
- Why AI is the safest “first step” for those not ready to disclose their story.
- Recognizing patterns of control before they escalate.
- Transforming a heavy mental load into objective documentation.
- Moving from confusion to certainty.

Clarity is the beginning of the end of the burden.

Listen to Episode 90: “What if I’m wrong about everything? Why AI helps” on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-90-what-if-im-wrong-about-everything-why-ai-helps/id1742281264?i=1000776771219

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