06/09/2026
When I presented at last month, I felt noticeably less nervous—and much more confident—than I did at my last in-person conference presentation several years ago.
Part of that confidence came from the topic: “Quick Design Fixes That Boost Donor Engagement” was a brand-new session, and I was excited to share the practical ways nonprofit fundraisers can make their communications more engaging and on-brand.
But I also felt more comfortable embracing the unknown. Every stage experience is different—that’s part of what makes speaking both challenging and fulfilling.
My session feedback from the 75 attendees was very positive. They especially appreciated the actionable tips, “no vs. yes” design examples, and 5-Minute Design Checklist. I also received helpful suggestions for making future versions of the session more interactive.
That feedback is part of how confidence grows. Each time I speak, I learn what connects, what could be clearer, and what my audience wants and needs. Then I can use those insights to make the next talk even stronger.
That’s also why I made sure to provide feedback for every GiveCon session I attended. As a speaker, I know how valuable those comments are on the receiving end.
GiveCon reminded me that confidence doesn’t mean knowing exactly how everything will go. It comes from stepping onto the stage, learning from the experience, listening to feedback, and doing it again (speaking of, I’ll be speaking at Cause Camp in Chicago in October).
Have you stepped outside your comfort zone recently? Or felt more confident than usual in a situation?