01/12/2024
WHAT LEADS PEOPLE TO CHEAT?
1. RUSHED MARRIAGES
Alot of people are getting married for society, for their parents, because they had a baby together or just to be called husband and wife. This rush into marriage or getting married for the wrong reasons will lead you to struggle to be faithful as you married a stranger or someone you don't connect with. A connection can be worked on if you both are willing
2. EMOTIONAL NEGLECT
The key component of a relationship/marriage is companionship. If you don't attend to your partner's emotional needs, someone else who values your partner more will be willing to do so. Most affairs start as an emotional bond. Cultivate emotional intimacy between you two, communicate warmly and often, don't push your partner away. Create no vacuum
3. OLD HABITS
If during your singlehood or younger years or in your past relationships you used to be casual about s*x and you don't deal with your past, you will do the same in marriage. Take stock of your habits. Leave behind dangerous habits
4. BAD COMPANY
The wrong friends will incite you to be unfaithful and even cover up for you because most likely they are also having affairs. Surround yourself with friends who will keep you accountable
5. SEXUAL FRUSTRATION
When your s*xual needs are not met at home, when you have a wife who keeps making excuses or seems disinterested in making love, when you have a husband who makes having s*x all about him or who no longer desires you; this can lead to a frustration that makes you vulnerable to temptation. Take care of each other's s*xual needs. Husbands, learn to touch your wife, to foreplay, and how to give her pleasure even if your er****on doesn't last or you ejacluate too soon. Wives, learn to be s*xually engaged, to communicate what you want and to seduce your husband
6. PERPETUAL MISUNDERSTANDING
If you two keep arguing over the same issue, you will grow apart. Soon, you will find someone of the opposite gender to vent to and who will make you f
