26/05/2026
The San Francisco startup scene runs on value exchange.
People there are transactional, and that’s not a bad thing. The rules are clear. You get one free conversation. After that, you need to bring something to the table.
There’s a phrase they use in the Bay Area: “The first bite is free.” You can meet someone once without an agenda. But if you want a real relationship, you have to earn it.
There’s no shortage of access. VCs are at pitch nights, events, and meetups all across the Bay Area. The opportunities are there.
The gap isn’t access. It’s preparation.
If you’re going to San Francisco for three months, six months, or a year, document everything. Who you met, what was discussed, where the relationship stands. Build a pipeline of relationships, not a pile of business cards.
The founders who win in that environment treat networking like a system, not a social activity.