03/31/2026
Menopause is a lot like losing your training wheels...
I still remember when my husband was teaching our son to ride his bike without training wheels.
He was 4 (in the photo, he was about 2 and couldn't even reach the pedals yet ;)
He was excited at first… until the falls started.
He wobbled.
He scraped his knees.
He got frustrated.
A little scared.
A little defeated.
He would pedal a few seconds… and then fall again.
Until one magical moment happened.
He went farther than before.
Then farther.
Then turned around and realized his dad wasn’t holding him anymore.
And behind him, a bunch of neighborhood kids were running, cheering him on like he had just won the Tour de France :)
That image has stayed with me for years.
And that is exactly what I think happens to women in peri/menopause.
Everybody knows estrogen and progesterone fluctuate and start trending down.
But what not enough people talk about is this:
Those hormones have been acting like our training wheels since puberty.
They helped keep us more resilient.
More adaptable.
More able to “get away with” stress, poor sleep, too much sugar, too much alcohol, late nights, overdoing, undernourishing, and still bounce back.
And now?
The training wheels are coming off.
Which means what used to work… suddenly doesn’t.
That’s not your body betraying you.
That’s your body asking for a different kind of support.
We can see this as a curse.
Or as an invitation.
I choose the invitation.
Because riding without training wheels is so much more fun!
Have you had a moment in midlife where you realized,
“Wow… what used to work for my body really doesn’t anymore”?
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I’m Liz — retired engineer, mom, wife and holistic nutrition coach. I help women 45+ nourish their hormones, digestion and metabolism in a way that actually fits real life — no diets, no fasting extremes, no nonsense.