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A BINK is one of those pivotal moments in life that opens the door to what’s next. Project BINK is about harnessing those moments to live out purpose. The result is a unique happiness, born from the inside out. Through storytelling, introspection and a proven process, the BINK platform guides you to your purpose. Every life-changing BINK moment contains a message that tells you where to go—and we’ll show you how to decode it.

Writing daily is as essential to me as breathing. It grounds me, clears my mind, and allows me to share my thoughts with...
10/21/2024

Writing daily is as essential to me as breathing.
It grounds me, clears my mind, and allows me to share my thoughts with the world.
Writing is my way
of connecting...
of sharing...
of living...
I want to help you find your voice, whether it's crafting an email, an essay, a short story, or even your memoir. To build bridges to help you unlock your storytelling potential.
I'm here to support you, whether as a ghostwriter or a writing coach, so you can share your gifts with the world. My goal is to serve you so powerfully that our collaboration becomes unforgettable.
I'm sharing a dream, a hope.
If you're ever seeking someone to guide you, it'd be an honor to embark on this writing journey together.

My phone vibrates on the kitchen counter—a photo from L.A. She's standing on a rooftop, sunglasses perched atop her head...
10/19/2024

My phone vibrates on the kitchen counter—a photo from L.A.
She's standing on a rooftop, sunglasses perched atop her head. I tap out a reply, snapping a picture of the morning light filtering through our window.
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The coffee maker gurgles, filling the kitchen with a familiar aroma.
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I pour a cup, glance at the empty chair across from me.
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The silence is thick.
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I take a sip.
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"Good morning," I say, answering her FaceTime call. Her smile fills the screen.
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"Morning. You just wake up?" she asks, adjusting the pillow behind her.
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"Been up for a bit. Made some coffee."
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"Wish I was there to steal a sip," she laughs.
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"Me too."...knowing she doesn't really like coffee.
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We talk about little things—the weather, the conference, the squirrels in the tree outside the window.
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A car horn blares on her end...
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"City sounds," she shrugs.
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"Figured..." I grin.
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"Hey, I gotta run...time to get ready," she says, glancing at her watch. "Text you later?"
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"Always."
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The day drifts by.
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At my desk, I check my phone between client calls—no new messages.
I drive to the store; the radio plays our favorite song. I turn it up, humming along.
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Evening settles in.
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I slice a tomato for dinner, the rhythm of the knife against the cutting board echoing in the quiet kitchen. The scent of purple onion fills the air. I set two plates out by habit, pause, then put one away.
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A video comes through—a short clip of waves crashing against the Santa Monica pier. I watch it twice...feel the distant spray of saltwater.
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"Looks beautiful," I text back.
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"Not as beautiful as home," she replies with a heart emoji.
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Later, another call. She's wrapped in a hotel robe, face clean of makeup.
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"Long day?" I ask.
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"You could say that. You?"
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"Managed to burn my dinner," I admit.
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She chuckles. "Survival skills lacking without me?"
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"Apparently."
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We sit in comfortable silence for a moment, just looking at each other through the screen.
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"Three days feels like forever," she says with that show-stopping smile.
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"Agreed."
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"Well, only one more to go."
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"Counting down."
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"Sleep tight, love you," she whispers.
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"Love you too."
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The call fades, and the condo returns to stillness.
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I walk through the rooms, her touch evident in every corner—the fuzzy blanket she picked out, the lonely iPhone charger on her nightstand, the faint scent of her perfume lingering in the hall.
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I climb into bed, the sheets cool on her side. Reaching over, I rest my hand on the empty space.
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They say distance makes the heart grow fonder.
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The glow of my phone illuminates the darkness—her goodnight text waiting to be read.

Comfort is a slow killer of dreams...You're successful. You've done the hard things before. But this? Telling your story...
10/07/2024

Comfort is a slow killer of dreams...
You're successful.
You've done the hard things before.
But this?
Telling your story, writing that book?
It feels like a leap into the unknown. The truth is, the move you're scared to make is the one that will change everything. Stop playing it safe. Get aggressive about your story.
It’s time to leave that legacy, not regrets.

When I go to the gym, the first thing that happens is my earbuds go on... The music flows into me.  .Voices—honest and u...
10/03/2024

When I go to the gym, the first thing that happens is my earbuds go on...
The music flows into me.
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Voices—honest and unfiltered—fill my ears. Artists giving a part of themselves.
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After that, I might write, or better, read. Sometimes fiction, often it's a poem, each line carrying a piece of the writer's soul.
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It hit me: everyone has something to say.
All of us.
Me. You. Her. Him. Them. Us.
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Some sing.
Some write.
Some stand at podiums, claiming they'll make a difference.
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We listen—we love, like, despise, hate—the voices we hear.
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But the real loss?
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Keeping quiet.
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Not sharing what's within.
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Your voice.
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The voice that counts.
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𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙫𝙤𝙞𝙘𝙚.

Hey, ma, it looks like I did it..." Hispanic Trailblazer"...🔥Let's light some fires together my homies.See y'all soon.**...
10/01/2024

Hey, ma, it looks like I did it..." Hispanic Trailblazer"...🔥

Let's light some fires together my homies.

See y'all soon.

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Friendly reminder: most people think success is all about money and fame...But I prefer the raw, unpolished truths of th...
09/25/2024

Friendly reminder: most people think success is all about money and fame...
But I prefer the raw, unpolished truths of the journey.
Here's what I mean:
A few days ago, I spoke at a NAWBO group event.
This group is special.
These women have not just reached but leaped over the million-dollar mark and are still climbing.
They're a prestigious forum exclusive to NAWBO-San Antonio Premier Members whose businesses generate $1 million or more in annual revenue. Point blank, these are powerhouse women.
The common bond was our entrepreneurial life...
I didn’t stand there to preach success, tactics, or strategies. Instead, I shared the gritty bits of our journeys.
The late-night worries...
That heavy silence after a tough decision...
Those moments we celebrate but can't explain to others...
When you wonder if you’re even good enough to be where you are...
Turns out, we all had those.
No bullet points, no flashy slides. Just raw, unpolished truths. And guess what?
They got it.
As I spoke, something shifted. We had all felt the thrill of success, followed by that sinking feeling of what’s next?
I didn’t tell them that it all gets better because, some days, it doesn’t.
I didn’t need to.
I wasn’t just another speaker.
I was one of them.

What a wonderful time it was, and I'm so filled with gratitude for the opportunity to have shared.
And the best part of it all?
Knowing that every woman in that room has a wonderful story worth telling, sharing, and leaving a lasting legacy over. Trust me...you do.
If you're wondering how to start telling that story, I gotchya covered >> https://bit.ly/3JBKIOk ..or better yet, DM me here. Being bold is how we got here, after all.

🛑 Stop it. Just stop...Stop wasting your time on books that bore you stiff. .Stop hanging with people who drag you down,...
09/19/2024

🛑 Stop it. Just stop...
Stop wasting your time on books that bore you stiff.
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Stop hanging with people who drag you down, and don't share your vision.
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Stop engaging in habits that suck the life out of you and lead you nowhere.
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Stop settling for average; push yourself to grow every day.
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Stop beating yourself up over past screw-ups and seize new opportunities.
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Stop begging for others' approval—believe in your own worth.
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Stop making excuses; own your choices and actions.
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Stop holding grudges; forgive to find your own peace.
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Stop chasing perfection; embrace your flaws and the lessons they teach.
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Stop stressing over what you can't control; focus on what you can change.
Aren't you sick and tired of it?
Then fuggin' STOP IT.
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Stop it.
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No more excuses
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Break the chains.
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Your time is now.
(Psssssst...wanna know where these rebels hang out? I got ya covered >> https://bit.ly/3JBKIOk)

Newsflash...That new writing guide you're reading?It won't help you:✅ Overcome imposter syndrome✅ Find your unique voice...
09/17/2024

Newsflash...
That new writing guide you're reading?
It won't help you:
✅ Overcome imposter syndrome
✅ Find your unique voice
✅ Finish your book
Not today, tomorrow, or in a month's time.
The only way to turn it from a collection of useful knowledge into the goal you're chasing?
Action.
I know because I learned this the hard way. I used to devour every writing book and article, thinking they'd magically make me a better writer. But nothing changed until I picked up the damn pen and started.
Knowledge is power, but only if you use it. Stop reading and start doing. Your story deserves to be told.
Wanna know what taking action really means? I got ya covered
>> https://bit.ly/3JBKIOk

Gym was closed today. Had to call an audible. Went outside. Worked out in the heat. No easy days folks. Get up, get afte...
09/12/2024

Gym was closed today.

Had to call an audible.

Went outside. Worked out in the heat.

No easy days folks.

Get up, get after it, move it and shake it. And remember…

Don’t let the old man in.

Hoorah! 🔥🇺🇸

I wasn’t sure if I should write about this today... .September 11th.  .It’s funny how this date stirs something deep, ev...
09/11/2024

I wasn’t sure if I should write about this today...
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September 11th.
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It’s funny how this date stirs something deep, even after so many years. Some of you reading this might not live in the U.S.—you might be miles away, across borders where today feels different.
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Or maybe it doesn’t.
Maybe it reaches you, too, in ways that words can’t quite capture.
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I remember where I was.
Clear as if it were just yesterday.
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My eyes were glued to the TV. Smoke. Metal crumbling like it was nothing. Not really seeing, not really understanding, until suddenly I did.
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And then, the fall—one after the other.
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I couldn’t move.
I couldn’t speak.
My hands trembled at my sides, fists clenched, as if that could stop what was happening.
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'This can’t be real', I whispered.
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But it was. We all saw it, no matter where we were.
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It’s strange how some days blur into the next, how some moments slip through the cracks of memory. But not this one. This one stays.
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The taste of coffee suddenly bitter, the cold floor beneath my feet, the lump in my throat that wouldn’t go away. And that feeling. That shared, silent gasp the world took.
The day the world stood still.
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The images that followed, rolling over and over again, as if watching the same moment on repeat would make it easier to understand. Easier to process. But it didn’t.
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I get choked up even now, typing this, because the emotion is still there—fresh, raw. This wasn’t just an American tragedy. It was a human one. For a while, it felt like the whole world stood still, collectively holding its breath.
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And I remember the silence afterward.
The eerie quiet, as if even the earth was too stunned to speak.
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And that’s why I knew I had to write something about it today.
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I couldn’t just move past it like it was any other day, like it was just another topic to check off. This isn’t about recounting a tragedy, though. It’s about remembering the light that followed the darkness, the moments when we came together. When we looked up at the sky, not with fear, but with hope.
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So today, I write to remind myself—and you—that while we’ll never forget what we lost, we must also never forget how we’ve rebuilt. The towers may have fallen, but we didn’t.
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Not then.
Not now.
Not ever.
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Never forget, not just for the pain, but for the strength we found afterward.
Never, ever, forget. 🇺🇸

Letting go of perfectionism in my writing changed everything...Just a short time ago, I stopped trying to perfect every ...
09/06/2024

Letting go of perfectionism in my writing changed everything...
Just a short time ago, I stopped trying to perfect every word before hitting publish.
I was stuck in these endless loops of editing and re-editing.
And no:
➡️ My writing didn’t suddenly become sloppy.
➡️ My audience didn’t abandon me.
➡️ My credibility didn’t take a hit.
In fact, since I stopped over-editing:
✅ My content output has doubled.
✅ Engagement on my posts has skyrocketed.
✅ I’ve connected with more readers who value authenticity over perfection.
Perfection is the enemy of progress.
And all these months later, I’ve never been clearer on my reasons to never chase perfection again.
Letting go of perfectionism has freed my creativity and helped me build a stronger connection with my audience.
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Wanna sling some ink and tell your story? I got ya covered >> https://bit.ly/3JBKIOk

You're killing your legacy...Every day you don't write, your story fades.Folks with powerful stories often fail to share...
08/30/2024

You're killing your legacy...
Every day you don't write, your story fades.
Folks with powerful stories often fail to share them, robbing the world of vital wisdom.
Is it fair? Nah...not sharing your story is selfish.
Is it fear? Yeah...most folks have no idea where or how to begin.
Don't be selfish, and don't be a damn scary cat. Instead, do this...
1. Stop Waiting for "Perfect"
You built a business, overcame addiction, or survived tragedy. Yet you freeze at a blank page? Newsflash: Your first draft will suck. Write it anyway. Perfection is the enemy of done. Start now, even if it's just bullet points of key moments.
2. Embrace Your Amateur Status
Feeling like a fraud? Good. Real writers doubt themselves constantly. Use that insecurity as fuel. Research obsessively. Interview others who've faced similar struggles. Your "impostor syndrome" will drive you to create something authentic.
3. Time Isn't Your Enemy, Fear Is
"I'm too busy" is a lie you tell yourself. Successful people make time for priorities. If your story matters, prove it. Wake up 30 minutes earlier. Dictate ideas during your commute. Replace one Netflix binge with a writing session.
4. Your "Ordinary" Life Is Extraordinary
Think your story isn't special enough? Wrong. Your unique perspective is gold. The small details of how you overcame adversity are precisely what others need to hear. Don't rob them of hope because you're too modest to share.
What if the book you're not writing is the exact message someone needs to hear to change their life?
Next steps?
Easy-peasey. Click here, or die with it still in you
>> www.WritingOutlaw.com

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