01/04/2021
Once we were about to celebrate the birthdays of the month, back when I worked as Head of the Interactive Graphic Design team at an agency in Guatemala. 👩🏻🎨 There we were at the meetings table, joking and laughing about some random silly thing, the birthday girl was cutting her own cake, and as she was deciding on how many pieces to cut the cake, we all realized she counted herself out. 🎂 For a moment everyone stopped and were like, “wait what about you?” She was like: "oh I'm not having any", "I'm on a diet". That's all she had to say for almost everyone around the table start pressuring her into having at least one small piece—after all, it was her own birthday. I could visibly see her struggle. Her quiet... shame. Her vulnerability exposed. A girl usually so outspoken, out of words. 😢 I couldn’t take it, inside of me I was like “can’t you all see her suffering?!” 🥺 Next thing I know words flung out of my mouth, pretty much yelling: "You guys stop it, let her be! Why do you all have to be such a stone in the road?!" 😤 Yup. Those words had come out out of my mouth. Like one of those out of body experiences, so out of character that you keep wondering if that was actually you. 😳 Oh. My. Gosh. The introvert, quiet me, the one that usually goes along with the flow in hopes that by being like that, she gets to keep the peace with everyone, and with herself 🤐 I’ve known from my perspective, very few things are worth arguing for, unless a decision involves my integrity.🙅🏻♀️ So what had happened that day? 🤔 After finishing this book I was reading (The Path Between Us), I was finally able to put into words so much and understand ‘why’ —turns out my appreciation for independence moves me in unexpected ways... I want mine, and I want you to have yours 🤯 All this to say, one of my goals for this year is simple: “live more freely”. Breaking free from invisible chains that hold me back from showing up like the person I’d love to be: I want my actions follow my heart. So here it’s to keep growing to show up better for myself + others ❤️ Care to share one of your goals? I’d love to know ☺️ Happy new year Kindred Spirit! 🥳