21/05/2024
STUPID THINGS A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER MARRIAGE.
There are fifteen stupid things a Wife can do to mess up her marriage, I want you to check them carefully and avoid them.
1. DARING HER HUSBAND TO BEAT HER.
You block the door way, and then dare him to beat you and see what will happen. Lots of women have done this in the past and they end up regretting it. It is unwise to do this. Utakula kichapo mbaya sana.
2. DARING HER HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.
You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman. You may live to regret it. Hapo utakuwa umefungua nyama na fisi pamoja.
3. NEGLECTING TO DRESS RIGHTLY BECAUSE SHE IS MARRIED.
âI am married, who is looking at meâ That was the defense of Mrs Joy when she was confronted for reason why she dressed so shabbily. It is the mistake of most careless married women and itâs a major mistake you can make. Atapata mwenye anavaa poa.
4. DENYING HER HUSBAND S3X REGULARLY.
You are a career woman; you feel s3x in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body regularly, so he is se3ually starved and intimacy famished. His secretary, colleagues, and girls in church/ Mosque are begging him to come but you padlock your skirt. I can see danger signal. Ataenda.
5. LEAVING HER HUSBAND FOR HER FRIEND TO CATER FOR.
"My friend please be my eyes, as I travel for this one week, help cater for my husband and my little kidsâ That was Mrs Rodah when travels she will later regret all her life. By the time she came back her friend had really helped her by sleeping with her husband. She later eloped with the man, leaving her own husband and two children. It is very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your beautiful and very active but Godless friend. Atakusaidia maisha yako yote.
6. LEAVING HER HUSBAND IN THE HAND OF HER HOUSE MAID.
Your maid is the one that cooks, cleans the house, and cares for the children and your husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid, all you do is to shout and back orders, nobody will sn**ch your husband you are the one graciously giving him to those that need him. Utaenda maid abaki.
7. EMPLOYING FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODEDLADY AS A MAID.
She is fully grown, well-endowed in the back and very tantalizing in the front, dresses like an actress, cat walks like a model and that is your own house maid? What a mistake. Uta go ama mkae wote hapo.
8. EMPLOYING HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN HER.
Employing a house girl more beautiful than them is a major technical mistake most women make. In the process many of them used their money to employ a rival for themselves. Donât be foolish when getting a maid. Atavalishwa nguo zako.
9. USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND.
Your husband is growing; you are sitting down at home eating. He is dressing like a guy with jeans and face cap; you are celebrating the fact that you are a married woman. Your husband is on twitter, facebook, whatshap, skype etc; the only thing you know about phone is to receive and make call. Your husband is talking about stock market; you only talk about tomato market. He is talking about Forex; you are talking about fruit and vegetables. Utakuwa finished.
10. FAILING TO COMMIT HER FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD.
A wife wonât do well if she fails to commit her family into the hands of God regularly. Donât make this mistake, be prayerful, hand over your family to God. May you never labor in vain! Mungu atajam.
11. FIGHING HERMOTHER-IN-LAW.
You may fight your Mother-in-law dirty and think you can win, you will end up losing. Her son and herself have been friends and lovers for years; may be before you were born. She was the first âwifeâ of your husband and also the first âgirlfriendâ. Her son cannot divorce her and she is more experienced than you in matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many conflicts. Hutakaa.
12. TELLING HER FRIENDS ABOUT HER S3X LIFE.
When you tell your friend about your s3x life she can size you up and know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not. She can even know your husband âturn onâ and use it against him and grab your husband. Most women have carelessly lost their husband as they complain to their friends âmy husband is too demanding, he does not know anything but s3x, Iâm not a horse, I canât kill myselfâ A friend will pick information like this and cover things up where youâve been failing. Mta share na mabeste.
13. REPORTING HER HUSBAND TO HIS MUM.
It looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum, but the end result will end up hurting you. Most mothers will support their sons any day; children are always right before their Mothers. Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum. Sikiza vizuri.
14. LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF THEIR HUSBANDS.
Many wives do abandon their husbands, denying them of love, care and attention as soon as babies begin to arrive. To sleep in bed, they put the Baby between themselves and their husband, making the man to feel lost in his own house. Ataenda.
15. USING S3X WRONGLY.
S*x is supposed to bind you together, it supposed to create intimacy and love but in many homes it is the bone of contention. Some women do turn s3x to a tool of manipulation; some use it for exchange. Some wives will suddenly become commanders at home when their husbands touch them for s3x, ordering the man around, âgo turn off the Fanâ âgo and lock the gateââgo and check whether our children are sleepingâ
this is very bad. Some wives sleep like log of wood in bed while some even wear jean knickers to bed.
If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage deeply and you may destroy your future also. May God not let us use our hand to destroy our own marriage... May God continue to guide and protect our homes from all the evil eyes Amen.
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